Prince Ikem Obioma
Ladies, I plead with you, by the mercies of God, avoid pushing or manipulating any man into marrying you. That you allowed him date you for five years isn't an automatic ticket to marriage. If you are what he wants or if he knows what he wants, he will propose marriage to you. Don't be there acting Mrs. and allowing him use your body as he likes without a strong commitment. If he wants to enjoy your body, let him do what is required of him. But never lure or manipulate him into marriage. Give him the space needed to decide on what he truly wants.
A lady just rang me crying over the phone. She dated her husband for ten years and wedded December 2012. Her happiness as a married woman lasted just one week. After one week as a married couple, the husband wakes up every morning lamenting and regretting marriage to her. I tried to ask questions to get to the root of it all. According to her, after ten years of dating, the husband, who was then her boyfriend, woke up one morning to tell her that he wouldn't want to marry her. She cried for days and threatened taking her life, this made the guy to propose to her. According to her,the guy said he was going to get married to her because he wouldn't want her to die.
Here she is today, no peace, no happiness. Her husband wakes up every morning telling her she is not his wife and he never wanted to marry her. She is frustrated and more depressed. You should be smart enough to take a walk if you see no sign of seriousness and commitment from the guy. Never manipulate a man into marrying you. Be the woman you were created to be. Hold your head high up and let guys know that having you as a wife would be their greatest blessing in life. Show them you are not desperate for it because he would lose so much if he loses you. Let him know you are a rare diamond and so the guy who knows your worth will come begging for your hand in marriage.
Never manipulate things
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